“Why is it so hard?” These words are on the lips of those who long for a committed relationship and yet they are feeling frustration on the other end. Often there’s a little voice inside that is sabotaging all the joy one truly wants to experience when being in relationship because the dating process
Setting Realistic Dating Expectations The reason why many people become frustrated with dating and long term relationships is because of conflicting ideals and expectations. For example, a woman might expect a man to lead, but complains when his pace doesn’t match her desired agenda. A man might pretend to want a serious relationship with a
You’re in Control of Your Destiny Does any of this sound familiar? Married (check) Divorced (check) Serial dater (check) Several short lived relationships (check) A significant relationship (check) A big break up (check) Back out there dating (check) As you can see, I’ve checked the box of what many people have gone through or who are
Have you ever heard of destination addiction? It’s a repetitive habit of constantly wondering about what’s next and around the corner instead of learning to take each moment as it comes. Consider this scenario…You’re in an exclusive committed relationship and are spending regular time with your guy. He’s attentive, communicative, employed, kind and generous… plus
How to Attract Positive People Into Your Life Most people who come to me for coaching tend to have one thing in common… they focus more on what they don’t want, instead of what they do want. “I don’t want a cheater, a liar, a player, a lazy man or a man out of shape.”
There’s an old saying: Women marry men in hopes that they will change while men marry women hoping they don’t change. Speaking as a man, this feels like such a truism and this may answer a lot of questions as to why a man might be into you and then disappear. When a man
When the First Date Goes Wrong You’re on a first date and things are not going well. As a matter of fact within 20 minutes you feel like vomiting (or just running out of the room.) For whatever reason, you aren’t feeling it with this person and the evening needs to end now. What do
Happiness is Intentional Many of us spend the days, months and even years of our lives running through our time on autopilot. We perform our routines and activities without much thought, just trying to get it over with and on to the next thing. In fact, I’ve lived most of my life doing just that.