Don’t Date with an Agenda – Date Curious Over the years, I’ve noticed that most people date with an intent for connection or completion, which is why so many struggle in the early stages. They have an agenda for dating and put expectations on each other, which can kill the natural unfolding of a relationship.
Let It Go and Move On I posted the following on Facebook recently: “Often when a relationship ends badly, there is a propensity to focus on your former partner with thoughts like, “they’ll never find anyone like me, or I really hope they meet a loser to see how really special I am.” All this
Don’t Despair, Don’t Compare… Love is Out There, Love is Everywhere On the lips of many who have loved and lost are the following: “We had something amazing and special, and I don’t believe I’ll ever find it again.” I’m here to tell you that yes, you will, and the odds are very good that
Make Your Man Hold On and Never Let You Go with Tips 17–20 We’re at the end of our top 20 Understand Men tips. I hope you’ve enjoyed reading them and that they have been helpful in getting what goes on in men’s minds. If you’d like more tips, please sign up for our emails
Jonathon’s 20 Best “Understand Men” Tips, Part 2 My email list (signup box is to the right of this post) has a few thousand women, and I hear from them occasionally with ideas, critiques, and comments. They seem to love the Understand Men tips, and they tell me which ones resonate with them. I’ve pulled
Are You Truly Ready to Be in a Relationship? These days, many people are waiting to heal their wounds or love themselves before entering a relationship. They have read or heard from psychologists and coaches who say they need to be whole before they can be in a partnership. There is some truth to this.
Do You Really Know the Person You’re Sleeping With? When it comes to sex and dating, my belief is that you are a grownup and can make grown-up choices. That includes when to start having sex with someone you’re seeing. Deciding when to have sex is a source of anxiety and confusion for many women
Why Do You Have So Many “Deal Breakers”? One of my clients, Leslie, has been divorced for five years and dating for two. She hasn’t been very successful with men so far, so she came to me. She’s a beautiful redhead with blue eyes that twinkle and a killer sense of humor. She’s smart, together,