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Choose Me or Lose Me

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Choose Me or Lose Me It’s incredibly painful to wait for a partner to meet you at the emotional level you live at, and he never arrives. What’s worse is if you’re waiting for him to return after the end of a relationship and say, “I choose you.” He let you go, he let you

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Filed Under: Breakup, Relationships Tagged With: boyfriend, Breaking Up, emotionally unavailable, Lost Love, Special Someone, Why Men Pull Away

If You Love Me, You’ll Change

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If You Love Me, You’ll Change When I coach women, I hear this more often than I’d like… and men are no stranger to saying it. “If you love me, you’ll change.” Have you ever said or thought that? I sure have. I’d like to suggest that those words never enter your head again, because

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Filed Under: Breakup, Dating, Mindset Tagged With: boyfriend, Dating 101, Dating Men, emotionally unavailable, relationships, Why Men Pull Away

Don’t Put Him on a Pedestal

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Don’t Put Him on a Pedestal When you place someone else’s happiness above your own needs, wants, or desires, you’ve effectively put that person on a pedestal. You’re saying that he or she is more important than you are. Because women are typically selfless and full of love, they tend to do this to their

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Filed Under: Mindset, Relationships Tagged With: Belief System, Dating Men, emotionally unavailable, Mindset, relationships

Don’t Date with an Agenda – Date Curious

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Don’t Date with an Agenda – Date Curious Over the years, I’ve noticed that most people date with an intent for connection or completion, which is why so many struggle in the early stages. They have an agenda for dating and put expectations on each other, which can kill the natural unfolding of a relationship.

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Filed Under: Dating, Mindset Tagged With: Belief System, find mr right, finding love, Jonathon Aslay, Mindset

Let It Go and Move On

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Let It Go and Move On I posted the following on Facebook recently: “Often when a relationship ends badly, there is a propensity to focus on your former partner with thoughts like, “they’ll never find anyone like me, or I really hope they meet a loser to see how really special I am.” All this

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Filed Under: Dating, Mindset, Relationships Tagged With: Belief System, Breaking Up, dating basics, finding love, going out

Don’t Despair, Don’t Compare… Love is Out There, Love is Everywhere

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Don’t Despair, Don’t Compare… Love is Out There, Love is Everywhere On the lips of many who have loved and lost are the following: “We had something amazing and special, and I don’t believe I’ll ever find it again.” I’m here to tell you that yes, you will, and the odds are very good that

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Filed Under: Breakup, Dating, Relationships, Understanding Men Tagged With: Belief System, boyfriend, Breaking Up, Dating Men, emotionally unavailable, Unlocking the Male Mind, Why Men Pull Away

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