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View Love as an Adventure

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View Love as an Adventure Sunday night, I was watching one of my favorite movies, “To Catch a Thief,” with Cary Grant and Grace Kelly (damn she was gorgeous). After only two dates (well they weren’t really dates, more like encounters) with Cary, Grace professes she loves him. Cary played it cool, because he was

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Filed Under: Dating, Mindset, Relationships Tagged With: Belief System, Jonathon Aslay, Mindset, relationships, Special Someone

See Beyond Imperfections to the Perfection Within

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See Beyond Imperfections to the Perfection Within For years, I’ve watched people date with the expectation that it has to be perfect for love to emerge… and the slightest glitch might send them running away. It’s a sad thing, but if I had a dollar for every time a client ran from a man who

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Filed Under: Dating, Online Dating Secrets, Relationships Tagged With: Dating 101, Finding Love Online, going out, relationships, understanding men, UnderstandMenNow.com

Why Not Be Grateful and Gracious to Your Ex?

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Why Not Be Grateful and Gracious to Your Ex? Each morning, I walk along the beach to connect with nature, to move my body, to ask for what I want and to express gratitude. Every day, I find something or someone new to be grateful for and gracious to. One day last week, I was

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Filed Under: Breakup, Family, Mindset, Relationships Tagged With: Breaking Up, coping with divorce, ex husband, gratitude, Mindset, Why Men Pull Away

A Change of Perspective on LDRs

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A Change of Perspective on LDRs For those of you who’ve followed me for a while, you know I’ve pooh-poohed relationships that communicate more by text than over the phone or in person. I always considered them “bubble” relationships and never took them seriously. I also encouraged my clients to never put too much stock

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Filed Under: Dating, Relationships Tagged With: Belief System, commitment, Dating 101, Long Distance Relationships, relationships

Don’t Just Dabble, Make Conscious Effort When Seeking Love Online

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Don’t Just Dabble, Make Conscious Effort When Seeking Love Online There’s an old saying along the lines of “how you do one thing is how you do everything.” I have found that to be true when it comes to online dating. When a woman comes to me and is eager to get her profile out

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Filed Under: Mindset, Online Dating Secrets, Understanding Men Tagged With: Belief System, Dating 101, Finding Love Online, Mindset, Online Dating, understanding men, Unlocking the Male Mind

If I Can Rise from the Ashes, So Can You

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If I Can Rise from the Ashes, So Can You Many folks give up on love and romance because they’ve been hurt, and they do nothing but focus on the past and their sadness and pain. I can relate to that. Six years ago, there was a brief time when I went to bed at

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Filed Under: Mindset Tagged With: Belief System, Jonathon Aslay, Mindset

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