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Can Dating Actually Be Fun?

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Can dating be fun?

  “Why is it so hard?” These words are on the lips of those who long for a committed relationship and yet they are feeling frustration on the other end. Often there’s a little voice inside that is sabotaging all the joy one truly wants to experience when being in relationship because the dating process

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Setting Realistic Dating Expectations

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Setting Realistic Dating Expectations The reason why many people become frustrated with dating and long term relationships is because of conflicting ideals and expectations. For example, a woman might expect a man to lead, but complains when his pace doesn’t match her desired agenda. A man might pretend to want a serious relationship with a

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Setting the Pace in a New Relationship

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setting pace in a new relationship

Have you ever heard the saying “Men are the gas and women are the brakes?” This is never more true than the man who comes on very strong in the beginning. He lavishes attention on the woman, wining and dining her, appearing to be very romantic and saying all the right things. The woman can

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You’re in Control of Your Destiny

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you're in control of your destiny

You’re in Control of Your Destiny Does any of this sound familiar? Married (check) Divorced (check) Serial dater (check) Several short lived relationships (check) A significant relationship (check) A big break up (check) Back out there dating (check) As you can see, I’ve checked the box of what many people have gone through or who are

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Should Men Always Pay For the Date?

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should men always pay for the date

  In my parents’ day it was a given that the guy always picked up the tab and that has been the traditional expectation over the years. But are things different now? Let’s say a woman makes $175,000 a year and her boyfriend makes $95,000 a year. They each have equal personal expenses and they

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Understanding Destination Addiction

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destination addiction

Have you ever heard of destination addiction? It’s a repetitive habit of constantly wondering about what’s next and around the corner instead of learning to take each moment as it comes. Consider this scenario…You’re in an exclusive committed relationship and are spending regular time with your guy. He’s attentive, communicative, employed, kind and generous… plus

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