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Why Do You Have So Many “Deal Breakers”?

By Jonathon Aslay 4 Comments

Why Do You Have So Many “Deal Breakers”?  One of my clients, Leslie, has been divorced for five years and dating for two. She hasn’t been very successful with men so far, so she came to me. She’s a beautiful redhead with blue eyes that twinkle and a killer sense of humor. She’s smart, together,

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Filed Under: Dating, Love, Mindset, Relationships Tagged With: Belief System, going out, Lost Love, Mindset, true love

What’s the Real Reason Guys Disappear?

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What’s the Real Reason Guys Disappear? Most women have had this awful experience… have you? You begin dating a man, and things are great. Conversation flows, you see each other a few nights a week and talk and laugh, and you stay in contact through the week. You’re cautiously optimistic that this one might go

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Filed Under: Dating, Relationships, Understanding Men Tagged With: Chemistry, Dating Men, emotionally unavailable, meeting Mr. Right, Unlocking the Male Mind, Why Men Disappear

Why the 10 Date Rule Works

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Why the 10 Date Rule Works  We’ve all heard stories of people who slept together on the first date and it turned into forever after. How often do you think that happens? Honestly? Not nearly as often as you might think… about one in every million one-night stands. Those odds aren’t great, so how can

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Filed Under: Dating, Online Dating Secrets, Relationships Tagged With: 10 Date Rule, commitment, dating, Dating 101, Finding Love Online, mating

7 Mind Games That Keep You Single

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7 Mind Games That Keep You Single You say you want a relationship, you say it’s a priority in your life, and you even hire coaches to guide you. But you’re still single, scratching your head, and saying, “Why am I alone again on a Saturday night?” All your friends say you’re gorgeous and have it

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Filed Under: Dating, Mindset Tagged With: Belief System, emotionally unavailable, finding love, Jonathon Aslay

Online Dating Made Easy through Spotlight Coaching… Ashley’s Story

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Online Dating Made Easy through Spotlight Coaching… Ashley’s Story One of my Spotlight Coaching clients, Ashley, wrote the group a progress report to tell us how she is doing with online dating. She has discovered a lot and knows she has more to learn, but she’s making great strides. Here it is in her own

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Filed Under: Dating Tagged With: Dating 101, Online Dating

Are Conflicting Rules Why You’re Still Single?

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Are Conflicting Rules Why You’re Still Single? I wrote the following post on my Spotlight Coaching forum and boy were the comment flying: “From my experience, one of the greatest challenges for those seeking to attract a mate stems from having conflicting rules. Part of them wants love, but the other part doesn’t want to

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Filed Under: Mindset Tagged With: Dating 101, Dating Men, Mindset

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