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When is it Time to Let Go?

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when is it time to let go?

From My Inbox: “We’ve been married for 25 years. Because of his unhappiness, he has asked for a divorce. But I don’t want the divorce. I’ve been trying working on our relationship for the past 2 years. However, he recently he moved out of the house. He said he doesn’t want to be married anymore.

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How To Survive Midlife Dating and Children

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How To Survive Midlife Dating And Children Midlife relationships have a unique twist for those raising children because typically women have more of the responsibility after divorce. This in turn leaves little free time for dating. While there are some parents who are able to share the duties 50/50, the most common arrangement isonce a week and every

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What Are Your Relationship Deal Breakers?

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what are your relationship deal breakers

It’s commonly assumed that relationship deal breakers are typically associated with differences in character. However, as I’ve observed midlife singles, as people mature, the relationship priorities shift to those of shared values rather than the factors that we looked for when we were younger. For example: some women prefer not to date men with small children, particularly

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Are Long Distance Relationships Realistic?

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Are Long Distance Relationships Realistic? As a dating coach, I am frequently asked about long distance relationships and the viability of success for those in the midlife years (40-69.) With the exception of those who initially connected in person and then were separated due to careers or other external reasons, most initial connections that begin

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Old Fashioned Dating Rituals and the New Reality

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old fashioned dating rituals and the new reality

  Old Fashioned Dating Rituals and the New Reality Instinctive, Cave People, Old Fashioned or Traditional…these phrases are thrown around (mostly from women) nostalgically picking only the perceived good and not facing the reality when it comes to today’s dating practices. Back in the prehistoric day, men wanted to spread their seed and monogamy was

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How Do You Measure Value?

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How Do You Measure Value? As many of you have noticed, lately I’ve been discussing the notion that it’s okay for a woman to initiate a date or even pay for a date in the early stages (the first 10 dates). Now some believe that if a man doesn’t always initiate or always pay, he

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Filed Under: Dating, Mindset, Online Dating Secrets Tagged With: Finding Love Online

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