Dating & Relationships for the Woman of Tomorrow
As a professional dating & relationship coach, I’ve helped many women with dating and relationship issues. This has led me to identify a few client “types” and approaches to dating and relationships that tend to work best for each. Three types I come across often are what I call the Woman of Yesterday, the Woman of Today, and the Woman of Tomorrow. While I enjoy coaching them all, I find it most rewarding to work with the modern day “Woman of Tomorrow.” In my experience, she is uniquely positioned to find lasting love and true partnership—which, any dating coach will tell you, is the brass ring. Who is the Woman of Tomorrow and how can I help her? I’m glad you asked.
The Woman of Tomorrow is defined by her self-awareness. She knows what she wants, goes after it, and invests in it. She does virtually nothing in life out of necessity. Rather, she does things out of desire, because she has choices, and knows it. This differs from the Woman of Yesterday, who is less independent and self-sufficient. Yesterday’s woman embraces her femininity in a way that supports the traditional view of man as protector and provider. She depends on her partner for security, and is happiest with a man who is fulfilled by supplying it.
The Woman of Today “has it all,” but subconsciously lives life according to society’s template. She is smart, strong, feminine, and successful, yet often struggles to balance career, family, and personal time. Today’s Woman reacts to what life throws at her and derives satisfaction from being a flexible multi-tasker. Her true partner is likewise an achiever, and prides himself on his accomplishments.
But, the Woman of Tomorrow has something more. She is the Woman of Today, minus the template. She is guided by an internal compass and empowered by self-awareness. Her thoughts and plans leverage her gifts, and are fueled by her desires. She has confidence in what tomorrow will bring because she has already envisioned it. To have a lasting romantic union, it is essential that she be with a man who is her true partner in everything—someone who fully appreciates her core being, has similar values and interests, and will evolve along with her.
While the Woman of Tomorrow prefers to be in a relationship, she’d rather be alone than settle for a merely “good” one. She leads a full and satisfying life and only accepts a partner who will enhance it. Tomorrow’s woman has a soft, feminine side that likes to be courted by the man she is dating. She is best suited with a secure, financially stable guy who continually works on himself and is emotionally available for a loving relationship—all things she is. As a couple, they do many things together, because they are best friends and passionate lovers.
The single Woman of Tomorrow is open to the possibility her partner will appear on her doorstep, but doesn’t expect or wait for it to happen. If she wants to meet someone, she searches for him with intent, doing her research, and seeking guidance and good counsel. That’s where I come in.
I help the Woman of Tomorrow locate her true partner by arming her with wisdom and focus.
What sets me apart from other dating coaches is that I know the male perspective and have a keen understanding of women. But most importantly, I listen and really get to know my clients. By tapping all my knowledge gleaned from dating and successfully guiding hundreds of women towards Mr. Right, my coaching enables Tomorrow’s woman to “date with purpose” and bring the man she desires to meet into her life.
The Woman of Tomorrow thrives on using empowering know-how to take fate by the hand and maximize her potential. My job is to help her achieve both in her love life… and grab that brass ring.