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Why Not Be Grateful and Gracious to Your Ex?

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Why Not Be Grateful and Gracious to Your Ex? Each morning, I walk along the beach to connect with nature, to move my body, to ask for what I want and to express gratitude. Every day, I find something or someone new to be grateful for and gracious to. One day last week, I was

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Filed Under: Breakup, Family, Mindset, Relationships Tagged With: Breaking Up, coping with divorce, ex husband, gratitude, Mindset, Why Men Pull Away

A Change of Perspective on LDRs

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A Change of Perspective on LDRs For those of you who’ve followed me for a while, you know I’ve pooh-poohed relationships that communicate more by text than over the phone or in person. I always considered them “bubble” relationships and never took them seriously. I also encouraged my clients to never put too much stock

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Don’t Just Dabble, Make Conscious Effort When Seeking Love Online

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Don’t Just Dabble, Make Conscious Effort When Seeking Love Online There’s an old saying along the lines of “how you do one thing is how you do everything.” I have found that to be true when it comes to online dating. When a woman comes to me and is eager to get her profile out

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Filed Under: Mindset, Online Dating Secrets, Understanding Men Tagged With: Belief System, Dating 101, Finding Love Online, Mindset, Online Dating, understanding men, Unlocking the Male Mind

If I Can Rise from the Ashes, So Can You

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If I Can Rise from the Ashes, So Can You Many folks give up on love and romance because they’ve been hurt, and they do nothing but focus on the past and their sadness and pain. I can relate to that. Six years ago, there was a brief time when I went to bed at

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Filed Under: Mindset Tagged With: Belief System, Jonathon Aslay, Mindset

Feel Good about Yourself and the Guys Will Come Running

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Feel Good about Yourself and the Guys Will Come Running What is the sexiest thing about women? Nope, not big breasts or a Kim Kardashian-type rear end. Nope, not hair down to the waist or full red lips. (Sure, we think those things are sexy, but what trumps them?) Keep thinking… A woman who loves

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Filed Under: Mindset Tagged With: Belief System, emotionally unavailable, meeting Mr. Right, Mindset, self-esteem

From Jonathon’s Mailbag… Fading Away and Bonding Through Sex

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From Jonathon’s Mailbag… Fading Away and Bonding Through Sex Dear Ladies, I receive quite a bit of email and try to answer all of them, and some questions come up repeatedly. I’d like to share two of them with you, along with my answers. Here goes… Dear Jonathon, I’ve been with my guy for a

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Filed Under: Dating, Relationships, Understanding Men Tagged With: boyfriend, commitment, Jon, Jonathon Aslay, sexual bonding, sexual exclusiveness, Unlocking the Male Mind

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