Is Being Stubborn Keeping You From the Relationship You Want?
“Well, Jonathon, that was a bold statement, what makes you think I am stubborn?”
Well my friend, have you ever heard the definition of insanity? It’s doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
“Jonathon, do you think I am insane?”
Of course not.
So my friend, here is why I think you might be stubborn:
My take is based after reading numerous comments on my Facebook posts, many of you are projecting the problem of not having a relationship as the man being the issue and that you feel you are in a healthy place. So if you continue to see men as the problem, then can you really find a happy relationship with a man? Is it possible you will continue to attract emotionally unavailable men if your belief around men is unyielding?
Imagine this, imagine if you can let go of all your preconceptions around every man you meet in the future and just look for the soul of a man: his integrity, honor and character.
While you logically know most human beings (men) have issues and baggage (and it’s just a matter of degrees of slightly bad to really bad), what if you set the intention that you will attract men who are doing personal growth work, working on bettering themselves, are emotionally available and have high integrity? Do you think if your mindset is focused on attracting that kind of man the likelihood of finding him is greater than the opposite mindset?
Now ask yourself this, are you in a healthy happy place in your life? If you are, GREAT. If not, how can you attract a man who wants you if you are not in a good place? What personal growth work have you done on yourself to be in a place to receive the relationship you truly want?
If your mindset is rigid then you are probably stubborn and you may not be in a place to attract the relationship you desire.
My advice: stop being stubborn.