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Long Distance First Dates (meeting online)

By Jonathon Aslay 25 Comments

Have you ever connected with someone online that you really liked and thought WOW, this could be the one? Spending hours on the phone, maybe even skype. Email after email, texting all the time talking about planning that first date? Has this ever happened to you? Well I know I have done it and I

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Filed Under: Dating, Love, Online Dating Secrets Tagged With: Dating Men, Finding Love Online, First Dates, Long Distance Relationships, Online Dating

Taking Things Slow, What Does That Mean?

By Jonathon Aslay 42 Comments

Taking Things Slow, What Does That Mean? So when a guy says that, what does he really mean? Let’s say you are seeing someone you really like (having sex) right after he ended a marriage or relationship. He doesn’t want the pressure of deciding his future and you don’t want to lose him. Just curious,

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Filed Under: Breakup, Dating, Love, Mindset, Relationships Tagged With: Belief System, Dating Men, Mindset, understanding men, Why Men Pull Away

Is Being Stubborn Keeping You From the Relationship You Want?

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Is Being Stubborn Keeping You From the Relationship You Want? “Well, Jonathon, that was a bold statement, what makes you think I am stubborn?” Well my friend, have you ever heard the definition of insanity?  It’s doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. “Jonathon, do you think I am insane?”

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Filed Under: Mindset Tagged With: Dating Men, emotionally unavailable, finding love, mating, Online Dating, true love, understanding men

How Do You Make Your First Date Your Last Date with Him?

By Jonathon Aslay 42 Comments

Have you ever gone on a date with a guy and thought he is not my guy? So what is the best way to say goodbye without him turning into a jerk? Do you email him a Dear John or just ignore him? Ladies what works best for you?

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Filed Under: Breakup, Dating, Relationships Tagged With: Breaking Up, Dating Men, First Dates, Online Dating, Second Dates, Why Men Pull Away

Does your Belief System Affect Finding Love?

By Jonathon Aslay 11 Comments

When your belief system (mindset) is that there are no quality or emotionally available men out there, there aren’t. When your belief is abundant, then there are. When you seek only love you see nothing else. Love is when you find someone who is your best friend and you can be yourself around them. When

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Filed Under: Mindset Tagged With: Belief System, finding love, Mindset

Lost Love

By Jonathon Aslay 34 Comments

“The saddest thing in life is when you meet that special someone and you know it will never be, and that sooner or later you’ll have to let go.”  The hardest thing I had to do was let go of someone I loved. “Has this ever happened to you?”

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Filed Under: Love Tagged With: Lost Love, Special Someone

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