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Setting Realistic Dating Expectations

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Setting Realistic Dating Expectations The reason why many people become frustrated with dating and long term relationships is because of conflicting ideals and expectations. For example, a woman might expect a man to lead, but complains when his pace doesn’t match her desired agenda. A man might pretend to want a serious relationship with a

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Setting the Pace in a New Relationship

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Have you ever heard the saying “Men are the gas and women are the brakes?” This is never more true than the man who comes on very strong in the beginning. He lavishes attention on the woman, wining and dining her, appearing to be very romantic and saying all the right things. The woman can

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You’re in Control of Your Destiny

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You’re in Control of Your Destiny Does any of this sound familiar? Married (check) Divorced (check) Serial dater (check) Several short lived relationships (check) A significant relationship (check) A big break up (check) Back out there dating (check) As you can see, I’ve checked the box of what many people have gone through or who are

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Should Men Always Pay For the Date?

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  In my parents’ day it was a given that the guy always picked up the tab and that has been the traditional expectation over the years. But are things different now? Let’s say a woman makes $175,000 a year and her boyfriend makes $95,000 a year. They each have equal personal expenses and they

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Understanding Destination Addiction

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Have you ever heard of destination addiction? It’s a repetitive habit of constantly wondering about what’s next and around the corner instead of learning to take each moment as it comes. Consider this scenario…You’re in an exclusive committed relationship and are spending regular time with your guy. He’s attentive, communicative, employed, kind and generous… plus

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How To Attract Positive People Into Your Life

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How to Attract Positive People Into Your Life Most people who come to me for coaching tend to have one thing in common… they focus more on what they don’t want, instead of what they do want. “I don’t want a cheater, a liar, a player, a lazy man or a man out of shape.”

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