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How Do You Measure Value?

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How Do You Measure Value? As many of you have noticed, lately I’ve been discussing the notion that it’s okay for a woman to initiate a date or even pay for a date in the early stages (the first 10 dates). Now some believe that if a man doesn’t always initiate or always pay, he

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Dating after a Recent Divorce

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From My Inbox “I’ve been dating a guy that recently divorced last November. We’ve been dating for 5 months. I thought this was it. He told me he loved me and we were making plans. However, he didn’t introduce me to all his children (he has four.) He was at his oldest daughters graduation this

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How to Develop a New Approach to Midlife Dating

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From what I’ve seen, many newly divorced midlife singles date with an intent to make sure that they don’t repeat the past. Men often retreat into play, fun, no attachment and no desire for long term commitment while women often have maintain an attitude that they are “owed’ a perfect mate after enduring years of

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How To Deal With Stalkers

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How to deal with stalkers

How To Deal With Stalkers As a MidLife dating coach, I’ve been granted some unique experiences as I’ve learned to navigate the dating landscape. Well, let’s just call them perils. But it’s all good because it helps me to help my clients find their way through the dating realm with greater authenticity and ease. Two

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What’s the Best Way to Cancel A Date?

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the best way to cancel a date

What’s the Best Way to Cancel A Date? Text, email or phone…how do you prefer to be let down? Let’s say you connected with a guy via an online dating site. You’ve emailed a few times. You’ve texted a few times. You’ve talked on the phone and planned a meeting. It seems like you have

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Should women consider asking men out on dates?

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Should women consider asking men out on dates? According to a new poll by Lavalife, 95 percent of men think it’s attractive and acceptable when a woman asks them out. Clearly, these men are not intimidated by a strong woman; which is a good thing because that means they’re likely to be more dateable. Personally,

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Filed Under: Mindset, Online Dating Secrets, Relationships Tagged With: Finding Love Online

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