Benefits and Pitfalls: Serial Monogamy vs. Forever After Before I begin, let’s look at what these mean. By Serial monogamy I mean being in a committed relationship with obvious sexual exclusiveness. Serial monogamy lacks the “rootedness” of marriage. It is more characteristic of adults who may have already been married, but not necessarily, already had
Meeting Organically or Meeting Online Do you like meeting organically or what about online? This past Sunday night, while talking on the phone with a matchmaking service, getting ready to enter a speed dating event, and checking my emails from Match.com I realized I’ve not met anyone of interest organically. What do I mean by
Have you ever connected with someone online that you really liked and thought WOW, this could be the one? Spending hours on the phone, maybe even skype. Email after email, texting all the time talking about planning that first date? Has this ever happened to you? Well I know I have done it and I
Taking Things Slow, What Does That Mean? So when a guy says that, what does he really mean? Let’s say you are seeing someone you really like (having sex) right after he ended a marriage or relationship. He doesn’t want the pressure of deciding his future and you don’t want to lose him. Just curious,
Is Being Stubborn Keeping You From the Relationship You Want? “Well, Jonathon, that was a bold statement, what makes you think I am stubborn?” Well my friend, have you ever heard the definition of insanity? It’s doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. “Jonathon, do you think I am insane?”
Have you ever gone on a date with a guy and thought he is not my guy? So what is the best way to say goodbye without him turning into a jerk? Do you email him a Dear John or just ignore him? Ladies what works best for you?
When your belief system (mindset) is that there are no quality or emotionally available men out there, there aren’t. When your belief is abundant, then there are. When you seek only love you see nothing else. Love is when you find someone who is your best friend and you can be yourself around them. When
“The saddest thing in life is when you meet that special someone and you know it will never be, and that sooner or later you’ll have to let go.” The hardest thing I had to do was let go of someone I loved. “Has this ever happened to you?”