Why Men Stop Making Effort Once The Relationship Hits THIS Point
What’s the blueprint of life that your parents handed down to you? You know, those “suggestions” like go to college, get a job, get married. Believe it or not, that blueprint was ingrained in your mind since childhood and your parents were the keepers (aka teachers) of the blueprint.
What does THIS have to do with men not making an effort? Men and women who follow their ingrained blueprints need time to grow up and become emotionally stable before entering into marriage…or even just a serious, long-term relationship. It’s only later in life that you might realize that you did what was EXPECTED of you instead of what you WANTED to do.
Today’s episode will explore the DEEPER reasons why men might pull away or ghost you at a certain point in your relationship.
Let’s talk about…Why Men Stop Making Effort Once The Relationship Hits THIS Point
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Sherri Anderson says
Hello Jonathon! I just listened to your podcast what would love do? I’ve spoke to you once before about this guy that I’ve been talking to about dating. It’s been about 3 1/2 years now. You made a short video for me specifically on Facebook I believe. He was talking to me about dating then started talking to another girl we worked with and they actually dated for two months. He broke it off with her because she was always on his case about wanting him to go to her place all the time and when they went out he’d buy her and her 3 daughters dinner and a movie. We talked again but never really got around to dating. It was all talk and no action. Finally after 8 months of us talking we had a lunch date. Then it was more talk until I moved back to the area. We’d meet up but he’d say he only had about a half hour to an hour and it was either at my place or his place. Then he stopped talking to me again for about 4 months. A mutual friend of hours told him I moved. I didn’t bother to tell him cause he just ignored my texts. He then told me it was cause of the time and what was talked about. We talked about intimacy for a long time but it didn’t happen until I moved back to the area and then again a few months after I moved. Now he’s back to not really talking toe again. He’s 40 but acts like he’s 20. Is he just immature or just doesn’t care he’s hurting people? He’s a horrible communicator! I’ve tried reaching out to him but to no avail. I’m lost and don’t know what to do. When I moved back to the area and we actually met up I thought finally things are going to happen. But it was only for so long. I feel stuck. Please help!
Jonathon Aslay says
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