Understand Men NOW 2017-03-27T19:01:17+00:00

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  • What makes men commit?
  • How can you help him be the man he really wants to be?
  • What it can mean to your relationship when a man feels (and acts) his best.
  • And more!
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What a Grown Up Relationship Looks Like

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Want to know a secret (or two) about men? Recently Suzanne Oshima and I sat down for a tell-all interview where we dished about... Whether men are intimidated by women who make

Dating a Divorced Man: Two Very Different Opinions

Even though we are competitors in business (and I say that with affection), Evan Marc Katz and I have been friends for years and I have a great deal of

An Inner Battle of Will

Have you ever gone on a date with someone you had a feeling it wouldn't work out with only to realize fifteen minutes into the date that your intuition was

The Dirty Truth About The Economics Of Love

Have you ever been on a date with a guy who seems so wonderful and perfect only to be disappointed when the bill comes and he doesn't offer to pay?

This is What Would Happen If I Coached Men

As a man, I get that men have needs. But all too often, I've seen these needs take priority over treating a woman with basic human decency. There seems to

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The 5 Qualities Men Look For In A Soul Mate

FREE Recording: Discover what men really look for in a life partner, PLUS uncover the 7 warning signs that he might be Mr. Wrong

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