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Why Is Dating So Hard When You’re Over 40

By Jonathon Aslay 5 Comments

Often times I have my clients come to me telling me: “I want more commitment in the men I date!” To which I respond, “What does that look like for you?” Unfortunately, after asking this question, I hear crickets. And this is the biggest reason why people over 40 have trouble finding commitment: they don’t

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Can We Ever Prepare For Loss?

By Jonathon Aslay 4 Comments

There’s only one truth in life… death/loss. Since the passing of my son (this past month) one thought that’s been ringing in my head, why haven’t been prepared for loss? So today I’m sharing my thought & feelings about the lesson I’ve learned since the loss of Connor. My hope you felt this video has

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How To Build Trust Through Listening {A Must Watch Short Video}

By Jonathon Aslay 2 Comments

If you’ve been watching my series of video’s about the lessons I’m learning after the loss of my son, you can see this is raw, real and sometimes hard for me because (if you’re a parent) this might be the most painful experience of one’s life. Recently I had dinner with Connor’s best friend and

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Lessons I’m Learning After The Loss of My Son (Eulogy)

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If you watched the previous vlog, this is a continuation of the journey I’m experiencing since the lost of my son. Today’s share is the eulogy of my son and a message of how to look at life in a different way. Love over fear. Gratitude over ego and joy over suffering. How to live

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Lessons I’m Learning After The Loss of My Son (Blame)

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As you may have heard, my son passed away a few weeks ago and if you watched the previous vlog you get a sense of where I’m at with all of this. Over the next few posts, I’m going to share my thoughts and feelings… and lessons I am learning since his passing. Today I’m

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A Personal Story About The Loss of My Son (Connor)

By Jonathon Aslay 59 Comments

With deep sadness I share every parent’s worst nightmare. On Tuesday July 3rd my beloved son Connor Aslay passed away in his sleep. As a member of my email community I wanted you to hear it from me and I want you to know his departure has inspired me to send more love out to

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