He Says: I’m Not Looking For Anything Serious Has this ever happened to you? You meet what appears to be a great guy, and the two of you really hit it off from a dating, mating & relating perspective. In fact, you really like this guy, and somewhere between the 1st and the time you

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Can A Woman Ask A Guy Out? (According To Men) There seems to be a continual debate about whether a woman can ask a man out on a date, and there seems to be a fear that it will upset the delicate balance of masculine & feminine energy. This cracks me up… the whole notion

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Ask Him THESE Questions Before Sleeping Together If you follow my work for a while, you’ll know that I see the dating process as a fact-finding mission to determine if two people are a fit for a long-term relationship. Also, I (now) view the act of sex as a bonding experience vs. a pump &

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Should I Date A Man I’m Not Attracted To? Here’s a question that keeps coming up again and again in my coaching practice, and I thought would be worth exploring all facets of this subject. Let’s face it, the feeling of attraction is an important part of the dating process, which includes feeling excitement months

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Why Men Ignore You (Even When There’s Great Chemistry) Recently, one of my private group members asked a question about how she had a totally awesome date, and then the next morning, she received a message from him saying he wasn’t feeling it the next morning. She thought they had great chemistry, and when she

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Make Him Choose You Over His Freedom, Be His Priority What is a commitment, or better yet, what does commitment mean in a romantic relationship? This is a question I often ponder because I believe that it is challenging to go the distance these days if someone wants to get married or even live with

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