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Do the skeletons in your closet work for you for against you?

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Will the skeletons in your closet turn him off? Not necessarily… We all have a few skeletons lying somewhere in our closets in the form of emotional baggage–an iconic image that represents the weight of all the painful memories we carry on our shoulders everywhere we go. These skeletons come in all shapes and all

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How to be the “lady” every gentleman wants

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With all the hype surrounded around men, chivalry and what it means for a man to be a gentleman, I think it’s only fair to also explore women and chivalry, and what it means for a woman to be a lady. If a gentleman is expected to open doors, walk on the inside of the

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Alpha women and relationship ready men

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Alpha women and relationship ready men When it comes to making typical household decisions, women call the shots in 43 percent of relationships surveyed by the Pew Research Center in 2008. Many of these women are often referred to as Alpha women. An alpha woman can best be described as a total B.I.T.C.H., otherwise known as a

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Filed Under: Relationships Tagged With: Dating an Alpha Male

How can you tell when a guy is ready for a committed relationship?

By Jonathon Aslay 15 Comments

How can you tell when a guy is ready for a committed relationship? It’s the million dollar question if a committed relationship is what you are after. Before I get into the meat of this topic, let’s first take a look at how most dating scenarios work out these days. Say you meet someone from

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Filed Under: Dating, Relationships, Understanding Men Tagged With: Belief System, boyfriend, Dating Men, First Dates, First Kiss, meeting Mr. Right, Online Dating, understanding men, Unlocking the Male Mind

Does Your Man Make You Happy

By Jonathon Aslay 5 Comments

Have you ever heard this? “How can you be happy in relationship, if you are not happy by yourself” Look, I get it…. but let me just say this: “I am SO much happier these days being in an amazing delicious relationship, being with a partner who I can just be relaxed (and especially vulnerable).”

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Filed Under: Relationships, Understanding Men Tagged With: Belief System, Dating Men, finding love, meeting Mr. Right, Special Someone, understanding men, Unlocking the Male Mind

Men Want Love Just as Much as Women

By Jonathon Aslay 10 Comments

My thoughts lately have been floating around this…. When it comes to creating a successful relationship, a true partnership leading to long term commitment are the majority of men just lost? Let’s look at two factors First men as providers and protectors, in the United States women outnumber men in the work force and in

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Filed Under: Relationships Tagged With: Belief System, commitment, Dating Men, emotionally unavailable, finding love, First Dates, meeting Mr. Right, Serial Monogamy

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