Psychology of Modern Dating and Relationships Compatibility has always been complex but in our younger years, it was less complicated to find a partner because there was a clear purpose to the relationship: create a family. The problem we face in midlife is that we come with a vast array of different experiences and the

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Why Men Need THIS To Decide If They Love You Many people believe that love is involuntary, that you’ll just be attracted and fall in love when the time is right. But I believe that love is a choice to let go of the past hurts, fear, and the fantasy of ‘involuntary love.’ Love and

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Men Make THIS Gigantic Mistake When Dating Women Today’s dating world is often based on a short term strategy which focuses on attraction, entertainment, romance, and physical connection all based on pleasure.  Throw in some ambivalence, arrogance, and/or naivete from men and you run the risk of hindering the development of a genuine connection. Those

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Men Who REALLY Care About You Have THIS In Common Emotionally wounded men look to online dating apps to find women who will act like therapists. These men *think* they just need to find the right woman and their wounds will heal but we all know that’s unrealistic. Let me remind you that no one

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Man Finds Love of His Life by Doing THIS Isn’t it so easy to focus on the negative things in life? I realize that many of my videos sound pessimistic about finding love or how to avoid the wrong person but I really am a hopeful romantic! In fact, I find great inspiration from real

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Do THIS To A Man If You Want Him To Emotionally Open Up In my experience, it seems as though the most successful couples start off as friends first. So often we’re stuck asking, “Is there chemistry between us?” when we really should just focus on getting to know one another. Let’s have a DEEPER

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