Learn How to Spot the Warning Signs of a Divorced Man
Who’s Emotionally Unavailable, Playing the Field,
or Too Broken to Ever Make You Happy…
and the Traits of a Man Who Just May Be Your Perfect Partner

Dating_A_Divorced_Man_Understand_Men_Now2Chances are, if you’re single and over 40, you’ve dated a divorced man. You may even be involved with one now. For that reason, it’s important that you know exactly what you’re getting into, so you don’t give your heart to someone who doesn’t deserve it.

A divorced man is a special kind of single man. He could have learned a lot from the mistakes he made in his past and become a better man. Or, he could be acting out and rebelling, being very charismatic, but secretly hiding that he’s deeply wounded and not at all ready for a real relationship.

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In short, a divorced man can turn out to be your perfect partner and your hero, or your worst nightmare.

He can be mature, honest, stable and confident and be the kind of man you’ve always dreamed of being with. Or, he can ACT that way until he gets what he wants or finds someone new. He could THINK he’s ready, until he starts having real feelings for you, at which point he’ll withdraw, telling you he’s not ready, or that he needs time to sort through some feelings. Many divorced men think they want a new love, but deep-down they’re just not ready, and if you’re unlucky to be involved with a man like this, it can feel devastating.

If you want to avoid getting hurt, you need to know what to look for as you judge your man with your heart AND your head.

Here’s just a sample of what you’ll learn in this teleseminar and workshop:

Is He Relationship Ready?

• Based on how long he’s been divorced and what kind of person his ex-wife is, how to tell if he’s relationship ready, so you’re not left vulnerable to the heartache that comes from a man not knowing what he wants or suddenly withdrawing

• Was his marriage really the wrong fit or is he a secret commitment-phobe? Some men were never meant for monogamy. Know the warning signs of a man who’s only committed to getting what he wants from you and then moving on.

• Is he secretly just wanting to play the field and have the kind of “fun” he didn’t get to have while he was married, and is in no emotional position to date you and ONLY you? Find out the subtle verbal and behavior clues that will ease your mind about his integrity and willingness to be monogamous.

Will His Children Always Come First?

• Does he have children from his previous marriage? Do you? How to handle situations where he will ONLY see you when he doesn’t have his kids. What to do if you find yourself feeling second best to his ex and his kids. How to know if you’re settling for a situation where you’ll ALWAYS have to compromise YOUR needs.

Is He Really Financially Stable?

• Some divorced men leave their marriages with a lot of debt and not a lot of skill in handling their money. How to know if his financial problems are the results of having to pay child support or alimony, other outside circumstance, or a big red flag that he doesn’t have it “together” when it comes to finances and responsibility.

Is He a Secret Deadbeat?

• Spotting the difference between a man who’s a good father and one who got divorced to escape responsibility. Learn the behavior to watch for and the questions to ask him that will reveal the “truth” about your man’s character.

Has He Learned from His Mistakes?

• Has he learned from his mistakes and become a better partner? Some men are so shaken by the failure of a divorce, it forces them to introspect and make changes. How to tell the difference between a man who’s done the work and one who’s just “winging it.”

Order Today and Receive…

  • 2  Teleclass – Get all your questions answered when you listen to the recordings as you make your way through the world of dating.
  • Bonus: Divorced Man Test – Is he really ready for a relationship?
  • Bonus: Relationship Ready Man Tests – Take stock of your relationship every step along the way.
  • Bonus: Interview with Bobbi Palmer – Self-proclaimed “World’s Worst Dater” turned relationship expert.
  • Bonus: Interview with Cherry Norris – Creator of “Meet and Marry Your Man.”
  • Bonus: His Hero’s Journey to Commitment – Why dating is hard for men, and what you can do about it.

The value of this two-part teleclass is $297,
but for a limited time
you can get instant access for just

$297 $47


Plus more than $280 worth of
Valuable Bonuses


Special Bonus #1 ($47 value)

The Dating Divorced Man Test – Find out if you’re ready for the challenges that face women who date divorced guys. And more importantly, find out if He’s ready!

These 25 questions are designed to help you discover the unique issues you’ll face as the girlfriend of a divorced man – before they become an insurmountable problem.

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Relationship Ready Man Tests – Find out if he’s really ready for your relationship to move to the next level.

These questionnaires will help you discover if your guy is relationship ready at every important milestone, from first meeting to 1-year anniversary.

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Confessions from the World’s Worst Dater – If you think you’ve got a terrible dating history, you’re going to want to listen to this interview with Bobbi Palmer, self-proclaimed “World’s Worst Dater.”

In this one-hour interview, Bobbi reveals the mistakes she made and how you can avoid them in your dating life.

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How to Meet and Marry Your Man – Cherry Norris, former dating disaster and survivor of tumultuous relationships joins Jonathon for a candid conversation all about how she turned her dating life around.

This hour-long interview is an exclusive for Understand Men Now readers.

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His Hero’s Journey to Commitment – In this 2-part audio, you’ll discover why (and how) men screw up, the 3 “F”s men suffer from (and how they affect your future), and why men fear “I love you”…and what YOU can do about it.

Plus, listen to a one-hour discussion about his hero’s journey, and what it means for his dating life – and yours.

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Carol Allen,
Vedic Astrologer and Relationship Coachcarol-allen[/quote]In order for a divorced man to go through the emotional hardship he’s been through and come out a better partner, he needs to go through what’s called “The Hero’s Journey.” He needs to encounter hardship and learn valuable life-lessons that he can internalize and that will enable him to re-intent himself as a new and better man. I personally had to go through my own version of the “Hero’s Journey” before I was ready to meet my beloved.

Men who’ve recognized the mistakes made in previous relationships are often more eager and capable in keeping their new partner happy. This program will show you what to look for and what questions to ask so you can be assured he’s a self-realized, conscious man who knows what he wants and won’t intentionally deceive you.

Divorced Men: Your Hero or Your Worst Nightmare? Sign up now to listen to this very special recorded workshop, where  I will show you how to spot the signs that the divorced man you’re dating is ready for a real relationship, or hiding the fact that he’s actually playing the field and not interested in anything serious.

Register today and you’ll have full access to the recorded audio workshop, plus the “Is He Relationship-Ready?” Quiz delivered to you via email that you can take to know if he’s a hero or your worst nightmare.

There will be a Q&A session after my presentation so you can ask about YOUR specific situation and get my insights into your relationship with a divorced man. What do his words and behavior mean? Is he really emotionally available for a new relationship or just pretending that he is? Sign up for this teleclass and workshop and find out!

Order Today and Receive…

  • 2 Teleclass – Get all your questions answered when you listen to the recordings as you make your way through the world of dating.
  • Bonus Divorced Man Test – Is he really ready for a relationship?
  • Bonus: Relationship Ready Man Tests – Take stock of your relationship every step along the way.
  • Bonus: Interview with Bobbi Palmer – Self-proclaimed “World’s Worst Dater” turned relationship expert.
  • Bonus: Interview with Cherry Norris – Creator of “Meet and Marry Your Man.”
  • Bonus: His Hero’s Journey to Commitment – Why dating is hard for men, and what you can do about it.

The value of this two-part teleclass is $297,
but for a limited time
you can get instant access for just

$297 $47


Plus more than $280 worth of
Valuable Bonuses

The Divorced Man and all other Understand Men Now products are delivered as digital downloads.
No printed material or CD/DVD recordings will be mailed to you.

Hello, We are Cathy & Kyle, & would like to share our success story with you…

kyle-and-cathyI (Cathy) went through a divorce, after being married for 24 years, became an empty nester when my 2 sons went off to college together, & I was all alone. It was an overwhelming change for me to deal with. Some of my friends suggested that I should go on Match.com. a online dating service where you can meet men. Being out of the dating world for a very long time, that was a little scary for me. But after a week or so, I decided to check it out & I signed up. Having no clue what I was doing, I made some “not so good choices” when I started dating these men that I met on the site. Until…

I met Jonathon Aslay, a relationship confidant & coach that helps women over 40-find love & to Understand Men from a male perspective. He also teaches you about online dating, what to do & what not to do…. after talking with Jonathon, I knew I was doing a lot of things wrong. Jonathon is a Real Person, he becomes a friend & someone that is concerned about you, & wants to help you! It wasn’t all roses…believe me, he told me straight out…”you are blowing it girl, if you think you will ever find love the way you are going, it won’t happen”…. So I listened, read books he suggested, joined in his tele-calls, had some coaching calls & learned from his knowledge. At that point I decided to join his “Angel Membership” group. The Best investment I ever made!! The women in the group were so welcoming, non-judgmental, & like true friends from all around the country…

I am still involved & a member of Jonathon’s “Angel Group”. I love our private Facebook page, (that only members can see & communicate with each other, on). I love sharing my stories with everyone & reading theirs as well. Getting & giving advise when you can also. I am still learning about Understanding Men & relationships from Jonathon. Because in everyday life, there are always trials to deal with, always room for improvement & growth.

And now here I am, in a wonderful, committed relationship with an amazing man that I love very much, and that loves me in return. We have been together for 3 year now. We enjoy our time together, learning about one another, growing in a positive direction towards a lifetime of happiness.

LOVE and RELATIONSHIPS are a beautiful thing…. especially when you have the proper tools & training in finding love, keeping that love & building that love into a wonderful, committed relationship that lasts a lifetime. That is why I strongly suggest that you visit his website…UnderstandMenNow.com and consider becoming a member.

If it wasn’t for Jonathon we wouldn’t be in this beautiful, loving, committed relationship that we have!! Thank you Jonathon for all you do….

Cathy & Kyle


the-ring“True story: if it weren’t for Jonathon, I would not be engaged to the exactly right guy for me – the man I’ve been seeking my whole life.

First there was my issue with dating. I can’t stand dating.

Not just online dating but dating period. Ugh. I had lots of good “reasons” – busy with my kids, busy with my business and it’s just such a time consuming road to no where – or at least that is how I felt.

Jonathon supported me to get outside of my comfort zone and to stay in the process even if it wasn’t always fun.

Then, when I did meet Mr. Right he was nothing like the version I had in my head. NOTHING! “This cannot be it.”

I would say to Jonathon who would listen patiently then help me see all the ways it was in fact “it.” My heart knew but my head kept trying to run.

Without Jonathon’s coaching, I’d still be in dating-hell or resigned to being single rather than planning my wedding to an amazing guy, who IS everything I wanted – and then some.”

Mary M.


sharon-hankI’m married and in LOVE. Shortly after working with Jonathon, I met an amazing man online and now I am married. Before working with Jonathon, I was making so many mistakes which included dating players and guys who weren’t relationship or emotionally ready. That all changed with Jonathon’s help. Jonathon is really the guy spy into the male mind which helped me understand men so much better. Working with him during our private sessions, he held my hand and guided me through the dating process (how to date smart). Plus I joined his private group (everyone is called Angels) and there I could discuss my anxious feelings about men in a very safe place. The confidence I gained working with Jonathon allowed me to be less needy and in my feminine power which my husband loves.

Thank you, Jonathon, you are really the BEST!

Sharon & Hank

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