Discover Why Men Pull Away, Suddenly and

Without Warning, Just When Things Were Getting Good…and the Simple Things You Can Do that Will Make Him Want to Get Close and Stay Close!

It’s a heartbreaking and sadly predictable dating experience: you’ve met someone you’re really into, and he seems into you too!

Then suddenly – and completely without warning – he mysteriously pulls back (or disappears altogether) after a few “great” days together or a few weeks of “exclusive” dating. You are heartbroken! What happened? Why did he pull away? And just when things were really getting good!

Hi, Jonathon here. I help women just like you know what men are really thinking when it comes to love, sex and commitment. Sadly, “Why did he pull away?”, is one of the questions I get the most, and usually it’s from a woman in tears over yet another “surprise” disappearing act.

If you’ve personally experienced this sad story, I am so, so sorry!

Each time a woman calls me in tears over the “great guy” who “got away," my heart hurts for her because I know had she had the insider information I teach on this frustratingly common man-pattern, it never would have happened!

So if you are “this” woman nursing a broken heart or wounded pride, I am sorry, but please do not despair and don’t close your heart to love because I have great news for you today. I can’t undo what has been done, but I can let you in on the real reason he pulled away (hint: it’s not what your girlfriends say it is), and I’ll reveal 3 simple but extremely powerful man-insider tips that will have him wanting to get close and stay close so you never again have to experience this heartbreaking and confusing dating situation again!

If you are ready to put a “cease and desist” order on this frustrating and painful dating situation, then the time is NOW for you to sign up for this two-part audio program:

Why Men Pull Away ~Plus~ The Secrets to Having the Close, Connected Relationship You Deserve!

In this 2 part workshop you’ll learn:

  • How to know a “Flight Risk” when you meet him.
  • The spoken and unspoken signs that he’s planning his escape.
  • What you may be doing that is inadvertently pushing him away.
  • How to know if he’s really ready to get and stay close.
  • The secrets that will have him wanting to Get Close and Stay Close – to YOU!

Here’s the basic scenario …

You meet him for the first time, and you’re a little unsure at first. He, on the other hand, comes on strong from the starting gate. He seems very attracted to you and even tells you so. He texts or emails you constantly. You wonder if things aren’t moving a bit too fast, too soon, but you like the attention.

Still, you’ve been hurt before, so you don’t want to waste your time or fall for the wrong guy. You’re cautious, but you feel yourself letting down your guard. After all, he seems so attentive, and the more you get to know him, the more you find yourself thinking about him and replaying the highlights of your dates in your mind.

Then there’s a turning point – you go away for the weekend, you have a long heart-to-heart, you allow yourself to be vulnerable – and suddenly, a shift occurs.

He’s suddenly “busy” and can’t see you as planned.

He doesn’t return your texts right away like he used to, and when he does, his response is flat and unenthusiastic.

Or, he stops calling and emailing, and you can’t figure out why.

Was it something you said? Is he seeing someone else? Did he change his mind about you?

He used to love your company and pursued you constantly. Now, you wonder if you’re more of an imposition than someone he really wants to spend time with.

You wonder if he’s been lying to you the whole time.

If you ask him about it, he either denies anything is wrong or tells you he “doesn’t know what he wants” or “needs time to think about things.”

What’s that about?

You’re devastated and even a little angry. Why does this keep happening? What is going through his mind, anyway? You feel helpless and confused, because you really thought this guy was special and you were hoping that it was going somewhere.

I know how frustrating this can be. This is why I’m going to help you figure this out and solve this all-too-common dilemma once and for all.

I’m going to reveal the reason why men pull back and the 3 secrets to creating the spark that will make him want to get close and stay close, so you never again have to experience this heartbreaking and confusing dating situation again.

I invite you to join me for this recorded workshop, where I explain the secret relationship pattern most men fall into that predicts why and how a man will stop calling, withdraw and suddenly grow cold. (It’s secret, because most don’t even know they’re doing it and most women don’t even know there’s a pattern!)

Best of all, I’ll give you 3 simple strategies for making sure the man you want in your life feels incredible emotional attraction to you and won’t want to pull the rug out from under you by suddenly pulling away. Instead, he will continue to pursue you and want to get to know you more and more each day.

The value of these audios is $297, but for a limited time you can get access for just a fraction of that!


  • 2-Part Audio Course: Get all your questions answered when you listen to the recordings as you make your way through the world of dating.
  • Full Transcripts: Read through at your convenience, or even print out to take notes as you listen along.
  • Bonus Recording: Achieving Women, Threatened Men – Discover how you can keep your independence and your man.
  • Bonus Recording: Players – How to Spot ‘Em – Learn the telltale signs of playboys who will only break your heart.
  • Bonus Recording: It’s All About Him – 7 Signs You’re Dating a Narcissist - Discover how you can instantly spot the guy who will never put you first.
  • Bonus Recording: Courting vs. Casual - Stop wasting time on guys who can’t or won’t commit.

The VALUE of this recorded workshop is $297,
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Plus $205 in valuable bonuses!

Who will benefit from this program?

  1. If you’ve experienced the confusion of having a guy pursue you one minute, then act like he’s not into you the next, especially once things start to get serious.
  2. If you’re afraid to tell a man how you feel because you think you’re going to scare him off, so you’ve been keeping your “cool” and pretend you’re not as into him as you are.
  3. If you feel shame and disappointment because men seem to pull away just after you’ve been intimate. It’s as if they only stick around long enough to get sex.
  4. If you’re single and haven’t had many long-term relationships. You meet a lot of men, get your hopes up, only to feel let down when they stop calling or make excuses about why they can’t see you anymore.
  5. If every man you meet seems busy, distracted, troubled or needing some “space”, and you’re starting to wonder if it’s not them…it’s YOU.

Then "Why Men Pull Away" is for you!

Order Today and Download These Valuable Bonuses Immediately:

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Join me for this workshop if you:

  • Feel confused as to why a man “blew you off” or stopped calling
  • Want to know how to stop feeling bad about yourself when a man disappears
  • Want answers about why he suddenly turned cold and said you weren’t the one
  • Want to know a way to keep your dignity and create genuine and intense attraction in a man
  • Want to create a spark that keeps a man interested without compromising yourself or being manipulative
  • Want to increase your self-esteem and feel more confident around men!

Why Men Pull Away and Three Ways to Keep Him Close: Sign up now to join in this recorded workshop where I will show you how to spot the signs that the man you’re dating is about to back off, leaving you heartbroken and confused.

What do his words and behavior mean? Is he really emotionally available for a relationship or just pretending that he is? Order this audio workshop today and find out!

Jonathon Aslay is like the big brother you SHOULD have had

Jonathon Aslay is like the big brother you SHOULD have had. He REALLY wants everyone to be romantically happy, and to find TRUE love. His practical, personal experience of finding, losing, and then REALLY finding true love, combined with his years of coaching hundreds of women and then hearing from thousands more through his amazing social networking communities, has given him a wealth of wisdom and insight to share with ANY woman wanting to understand men, and chart her own romantic course successfully. He’s the real deal… who can help you get and KEEP the real thing.

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Total Value $297.00
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Why Men Pull Away and all other Understand Men Now products are delivered as  digital downloads.

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Private & group coaching, workshops, teleclasses and digitally downloadable products are designed to be intellectually and conversationally stimulating and for enlightenment and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be used for mental or medical diagnosis or treatment. Mr. Aslay makes no guarantees or representation that he will resolve your relationship query. All audio recordings & transcriptions produced during any live workshop, teleclass or group coaching session is the property of Jonathon Aslay, Understand Men Now (UMN). Participation waives all rights in the recordings and the audios may result in future resale and Jonathon Aslay, UMN retains full rights in it’s use. Our refund policy and other terms and conditions can be found here.