Feeling Frustrated with Dating? Confused by His Words and Actions?

Does this sound like you?

If you’re dating, you’re not happy about how much time you’ve wasted on men who are too short, too bald, un-ambitious, have personality problems, or who are emotionally unavailable or commitment-phobic. The men you meet either come on strong at first and then pull back, are cheaters and liars, or don’t know what they want.
If you’re in a relationship, you may be wondering how to get him to want something more committed and serious, or simply get him to open up and talk—the way he used to when you were first falling for each other.

If you’re tired of feeling confused, heartbroken or frustrated with men in your life, you’ve come to the right place. I can help put your mind at ease by sharing my “blueprints” of how men think, all while personally guiding you on your own journey to find true love.

By learning the “inside secrets” of men and getting tools and support in applying what you’ve learned, you will find it much easier to navigate this thing called “relationships.” You will be able to feel less confusion, break down communication barriers, and learn the secrets to getting your man to open up his inner world to you.

How Do Group Coaching Calls Work?

Our calls are interactive, so be prepared to ask questions and share your own perspective.

I’ll start the call by sharing my perspective, then I’ll open up the microphone for anyone who has a question or needs clarification.

So now let me ask you…

Do you think there’s a problem with you, or is it something wrong with your man?

Does it seem like the men you’re dating are all wolves in sheep’s clothing and you want to know how to pick better men or at the very least, stop attracting players and losers?

Do you often wish you could get advice and perspective about men, so you can stop feeling anxious about what he did or said, and have the insight to be able to handle difficult situations with grace?

I know that being single in today’s world can be very challenging. Men can send mixed signals. There are many choices of where to meet men, but the pickings may seem slim to you. Maybe you’ve felt defeated by love in the past.

Whatever you do, don’t lose hope that there are still good men out there, and thatyou can be in a healthy relationship.

As an internationally recognized dating and relationship coach, I’ve heard from thousands of women over the years asking me for the exact same things you’re looking for: support, clarity, and understanding.

I can tell you that everything you’re experiencing can turn around for the better. All you need is a little help and support to get you started on the right track.

But let’s settle one thing first:

The reason you are single has nothing to do with who you are– believe it!

However, there are some things you should know about how your actions or behavior can impact the way men approach you in dating. Then, there’s also telltale signs that a guy isn’t “Mr. Right” material, and spotting him right away can save you time and heartache. I’m here to help you decode the mystery and get a “heads up” on how to read men.

The problem with your relationship may be a ‘miss’: miscommunication or misunderstanding each other.

That’s where I can help…

Upcoming Spotlight Coaching Calls

May
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Tuesday, May 24, 2016

5:00pm Pacific

7:00pm Central

8:00pm Eastern

June
14

Tuesday, June 14, 2016

5:30pm Pacific

7:30pm Central

8:30pm Eastern

Making Sense of Men Part 2:


Why Men Avoid Commitment & How You Can Turn it Around


It’s true. Men can be commitment phobic. But you can turn that around and find long-lasting love.


Tips from Jonathon about dealing with a commitment-phobe + live Q & A.

How Men Commit


Discover what it really takes for a man to make a long-term commitment.


It’s true. Men and women approach dating and relationships differently. Learn how men really think during this interactive call.


Tips from Jonathon Plus Q & A time after the call to answer YOUR questions!

Before I met Jonathon, I was dating as though

walking through a fog.

Shortly after working with Jonathon, I met an amazing man online and now I am married. Before working with Jonathon, I was making so many mistakes which included dating players and guys who weren’t relationship or emotionally ready. That all changed with Jonathon’s help. Jonathon is really the guy spy into the male mind which helped me understand men so much better. Working with him during our private sessions, he held my hand and guided me through the dating process (how to date smart). Plus I joined his private group (everyone is called Angels) and there I could discuss my anxious feelings about men in a very safe place. The confidence I gained working with Jonathon allowed me to be less needy and in my feminine power which my husband loves. Thank you, Jonathon, you are really the BEST!
I’m married and in LOVE!

Jonathon has cracked the code

Jonathon Aslay has done the women of the world a great service….he has cracked the code to “understanding men.” If you’re ready to have a relationship that really works, dive into his vast wealth of wisdom on men, women and relationships.
Arielle Ford, Author of Wabi Sabi Love

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Jonathon Aslay is the real deal

Jonathon Aslay is like the big brother you SHOULD have had. He REALLY wants everyone to be romantically happy, and to find TRUE love. His practical, personal experience of finding, losing, and then REALLY finding true love, combined with his years of coaching hundreds of women and then hearing from thousands more through his amazing social networking communities, has given him a wealth of wisdom and insight to share with ANY woman wanting to understand men, and chart her own romantic course successfully. He’s the real deal… who can help you get and KEEP the real thing.
Carol Allen, Love Is In The Stars

Register Now and Receive These Very Special Bonus Recordings as My Gift to You!


How to Be a Strong Woman Without Intimidating Your Man

Does your independence and strength scare off the best men? If you feel like you have to hide the amazing, strong woman you are and don’t want to do it anymore, this one-hour coaching call will show you exactly how to be yourself and get the guy.

Yours FREE when you register as a Spotlight Coaching Member today.


5 Ways to Unlock a Man’s Heart

Having trouble getting through that tough exterior to the real man you know is waiting for you? In this replay call, you’ll discover 5 ways to unlock his heart and build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

Yours FREE when you register as a Spotlight Coaching Member today.


How to Meet Quality Men

This Spotlight Coaching call replay features special guest Marni Battista. Think all of the good ones are ‘taken’? Marni shares the secrets to finally meeting the quality guys who are looking for you!

Yours FREE when you register as a Spotlight Coaching Member today.

A Very Special Thank You to Jonathon and His Spotlight Coaching Group

After 5 years together Kyle & I are getting married Nov. 7th, 2015. We are so excited! We have a wonderful relationship & it all happened because of Jonathon. I was newly divorced & not making the best decisions on dating. I met Jonathon & became a member [of the Spotlight Coaching Group] and he coached me through a difficult time in my life & got me on the right track. I listened to him and put the tools that he taught me to work. I met Kyle 5 years ago and it has been wonderful. I never thought Love could be this good!
Cathy Villani


I can help you gain confidence, make better choices about men and teach you how to de-mystify a man’s words and behavior…based on YOUR specific needs.

Does it seem like the men you’re dating are all wolves in sheep’s clothing and you want to know how to pick better men or at the very least, stop attracting players and losers?

Do you often wish you could get advice and perspective about men, so you can stop feeling anxious about what he did or said, and have the insight to be able to handle difficult situations with grace?

I know that being single in today’s world can be very challenging. Men can send mixed signals. There are many choices of where to meet men, but the pickings may seem slim to you. Maybe you’ve felt defeated by love in the past.

Whatever you do, don’t lose hope that there are still good men out there, and that you can be in a healthy relationship.

As an internationally recognized dating and relationship coach, I’ve heard from thousands of women over the years asking me for the exact same things you’re looking for: support, clarity, and understanding.

I can tell you that everything you’re experiencing can turn around for the better. All you need is a little help and support to get you started on the right track.

But let’s settle one thing first:

The reason you are single has nothing to do with who you are– believe it!

However, there are some things you should know about how your actions or behavior can impact the way men approach you in dating. Then, there’s also telltale signs that a guy isn’t “Mr. Right” material, and spotting him right away can save you time and heartache. I’m here to help you decode the mystery and get a “heads up” on how to read men.

The problem with your relationship may be a ‘miss’: miscommunication or misunderstanding each other.

That’s where I can help…


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If it weren’t for Jonathon, I would not be engaged to the exactly right guy for me – the man I’ve been seeking my whole life

First there was my issue with dating. I can’t stand dating.
Not just online dating but dating period. Ugh. I had lots of good “reasons” – busy with my kids, busy with my business and it’s just such a time consuming road to no where – or at least that is how I felt.
Jonathon supported me to get outside of my comfort zone and to stay in the process even if it wasn’t always fun.
Then, when I did meet Mr. Right he was nothing like the version I had in my head. NOTHING! “This cannot be it.”
I would say to Jonathon who would listen patiently then help me see all the ways it was in fact “it.” My heart knew but my head kept trying to run.
Without Jonathon’s coaching, I’d still be in dating-hell or resigned to being single rather than planning my wedding to an amazing guy, who IS everything I wanted – and then some.
Mary M.

Private & group coaching, workshops, teleclasses and digitally downloadable products are designed to be intellectually and conversationally stimulating and for enlightenment and entertainment purposes only. It is not intended to be used for mental or medical diagnosis or treatment. Mr. Aslay makes no guarantees or representation that he will resolve your relationship query. All audio recordings & transcriptions produced during any live workshop, teleclass or Spotlight Coaching session is the property of Jonathon Aslay, Understand Men Now (UMN) and JSA Communication, LLC (JSALLC). Participation waives all rights in the recordings and the audios may result in future resale and Jonathon Aslay, UMN & JSALLC retains full rights in it’s use. Our refund policy and other terms and conditions can be found here.